Five years ago, I met a little girl named Zoe.
Zoe was, miraculously, 2 years old.
I say miraculously because when she was still in the womb, the doctors told her parents that she wouldn't be born alive. They even urged them (the parents) to abort her. Her parents refused to do that.
At the end of the pregnancy, Zoe was born. And stunned everyone by being alive. By having a heartbeat, by being able to breathe.
The doctors swore she wouldn't have long to live - the implication was that they should have aborted and saved themselves the pain.
The days slipped by, and, to the amazement of everyone, they turned into months. And the months into years.
You see, when still in the womb, Zoe's skull did not seal over properly and most of her brain was eaten away. When she was born, she had only the tiniest portion of a brain. Enough to keep a heartbeat going. Enough to keep her lungs moving. Enough that she could hear. But not much else.
Zoe was unable to respond, seemed unable to even understand what was going on around her. The average 2 year old can talk and walk. Can run and play. They can communicate disgust. They can communicate love. They can communicate joy. They can communicate pain. Zoe still lay in her pram and watched the world go by around her. Much like a newborn.
Many would say that Zoe would be too great a burden to care for. Many might think the parents should have aborted her. Some might think she should even have been euthanized as at birth.
After all, what kind of life can a child with only the smallest of brains have?
I don't know, but I can tell you that as I looked at Zoe that day. Looked her eyes that seemed too big, and the forehead that sloped back, I didn't see a child who would be a burden. I saw a child who needed love and protection.
I saw a child who was owed the chance to have a shot at life, purely because she was alive.
I saw a child deserved to taste chocolate, even if she couldn't fully process it, purely because she was a human being.
I saw a child who deserved to be hugged by her parents and told that they loved her, even if she couldn't understand it, purely because she was their daughter.
I saw a child who deserved to be told that she was beautiful and wonderful and breathtaking, purely because she was made by the Master Artist, and the Master Artist never gets it wrong.
I saw a child whose life deserved to be celebrated and cherished, because all life is a Gift, a Sacred Gift from the One who is the source of all things.
I'm telling you about Zoe today because we spoke about euthanasia in ethics today. And every time euthanasia or abortion is brought up, I think about Zoe.
I think about that little girl in her pram.
And I wonder: who are we to decide if someone should live or die? Even if that someone is ourselves.
Who are we to decide if someone's life is going to be, or currently is, too painful too continue?
Who are we to decide if someone's life is never going to get any better, so we might as well end it?
Who are we to decide that death is better that life in instances of pain and suffering?
And how can we determine the value of a life on the basis of how much someone is suffering?
How can we determine the value of life on the basis of how much of a burden someone is?
How can we determine the value of a life of how smart they are? How mobile? How creative? How "normal"?
The Bible tells us that we are made in the image of God.
Out of all of creation, we, the humans, are made in the image of the Creator.
We are the ones He fashioned with His hands
We are the ones given the rule of the earth.
We are the ones He died to save.
We are the ones who can call Him "Abba - Daddy".
And who are we to judge if someone else should die? We are the Created, just like them.
So, I don't know about you, but I will never condone abortion or euthanasia. Because each and every "lost cause" could be a Zoe, and they all deserved that chance.
But I will also never condemn those who have had an abortion, will have an abortion, encourage abortion or euthanasia. Because, just as it's not our place to judge if someone should live or die, it is not our place to judge if someone is damned or saved.
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